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Understand Something, You Are Your Own Worst Enemy!

Too often these days I hear the same story about people's circumstances or what it is about their life that won't allow them to get where they're trying to go. Well I've just about had enough of it! YOU ARE YOUR OWN PROBLEM! Stop looking around for people to blame, go directly to the mirror and look your problem straight in the eye. I'm sure a few of you are wondering where this overly aggressive tone just came from and I'll be happy to explain. Just sit back, grab a cup of your favorite drink and let's have a quick talk...shall we?

It was about this time last year that I realized I had a child...by a woman I was definitely NOT in a relationship with. At this point I really had no idea what to do next. I was currently in a relationship that I knew was failing, I wasn't satisfied with where I was in life and on top of all this I was now dealing with the fact I was a father...whether I liked it or not. Well long story short, I realized I had a choice. I could be like every other guy out here ignoring their problems and living vicariously through 2 Chainz lyrics and continue to "ride around and get it" or I could do what needed to be done. Well I decided to step up and do the best job I could to be there. I'm telling you this story not for a pat on the back, but hoping that you realize you have a choice!

With the ability to choose comes the responsibility of choosing correctly. Deep down we all have a conscience that lets us know what's right and what is wrong based on what we were taught from our parents as well as our own Life Lessons (click here to read Desi's Life Lessons Playlist). With that being said, stop ranting on the internet about how you wish things would change in your life. If your life as well as your mentions is in shambles then find a way to turn things around. The answer may not always be easy to stumble upon but you owe it to yourself to do all you can to see your own success.

With that being said I have to give you the 100% unbiased truth, YOU ARE YOUR OWN WORST ENEMY! No one can make you feel any worse about you than you can...no matter what they may say or do, it doesn't hurt you unless you let it. But on the flip side of that coin, you are also your own best friend!

You alone hold the power to your own success and searching for it through others or waiting on a situation to change won't get it! We all get dealt good cards and bad cards in life...play them as you choose! Acknowledge defeat, but never accept it. Work harder to be the person you want to be rather than become complacent with the person you are now!

I tell you these things out of love and simply being annoyed by hearing you rant about them on my timeline lol. So let this be a lesson to you, you have to be the change you want to see, and hell you may even inspire someone else by chasing after your dream. Lowkey, my daughter is why I've been going so hard for mine.

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